
It is the first thing many of us were taught in the real estate business. I can hear my mentor 10 years ago say now "You Can't Want the Deal to Close More than your Buyer or Seller".
We all know this, but why don't we always practice this?
- We need the deal to close because we need the lights on. We must pay the electric bill on the day of closing.
- We have such a vested interest in the deal closing because in our mind we already cashed the check.
- We need the deal to close because the last day to pay for private school is the day of closing.
- We need the deal to close so we can continue to take showers. We all know the water companies are ruthless and if we do not pay the water bill than it is going to be a little harder to sell real estate without taking a shower for a week or two.
- We need the deal to close because we do not want to continue to eat maccaroni and cheese and roman noodles for dinner. The kids are getting tired of jelly sandwiches too.
- We need the deal to close so when the ice cream truck comes around we can afford to buy our kids a Chipwich.
- We need the deal to close so we can pay back thee family and friends you borrowed from last month citing this deal would close on this date and I will pay you back then. I promise.
- We need the deal to close so we can stay in this business and continue to provide for the family. We love the real estate business so we do not want to leave it.
- We need the deal to close because our dog has cancer and needs surgery.
- We need the deal to close so we can go on a vacation as we have not been on a vacation since last Thursday.
We all want to take care of our clients, and sometimes our fear of losing the deal dictates how we react to our client, and perhaps is not in the best interest of our client. The amazing thing here is that if you truly take care of your client, and do not fear losing the deal it comes back 10 fold.
Buyers are very sophisticated now. Even the retired school teacher from the midwest will try and steal a home in South Florida. They will have all the statistics and information about the market. Buyers are very sophisticated.
Since Buyers are so sophisticated you must make sure you have their best interest or not only will you lose that buyer, but you will also lose your reputation. In order to stay in the business and be successful take care of your clients, and do not push deals on your buyers because you need to pay your electric bill. Push deals on your buyers because you believe it is the best thing for them.










